tiffanythinks

Rank 2

@anniecastiel1632

1 comment

812 likes

“There is something deeply unsettling about the way some people are responding right now. We are talking about a human being who has been very open about fighting stage four cancer; who has shown us, in real time, what strength and vulnerability look like. And somehow, the conversation has shifted into demands. Expectations. Questions about where she is, why she is not posting, what her “motives” might be. She has not posted in over two weeks. She has told some, in response to their concern, she is not doing well. She has said she tried to make a video and simply could not. That should be the end of the discussion. Instead, there are posts circulating that are rude, speculative, and frankly disturbing; taking advantage of her silence as if it is something to interrogate rather than something to respect. Let’s be very clear about something: sharing your life online does not sign you up to perform through suffering. It does not obligate you to meet anyone’s schedule. It does not mean you owe strangers updates while you are struggling to stay alive. Yes, she has chosen to share her journey. Yes, this is also a source of income for her. That does not erase her humanity. It does not make her pain content. It does not mean she exists to meet anyone else’s expectations of how cancer should look, how often it should be documented, or how “positively” it should be handled. Some days she may have the strength to show up. Other days she will not. That is the reality of what she is facing. The lack of empathy being shown by some people right now is staggering. If you care about her, give her space. If you support her, be patient. If you have nothing kind to say, say nothing at all. She does not owe anyone posts…even a small one to give “a quick update”. She owes herself whatever peace, rest, and moments of joy she can find. And that should be enough. And if her absence feels devastating to you, or you find yourself demanding answers from someone fighting for her life, it might be time to pause and ask why that feels so personal, because that answer has nothing to do with her.”

Rank 3

@deborahwyttenbach6416

1 comment

770 likes

“My hubby just finished neck radiation, 42 treatments, the tumor is now gone and the only adverse he had from radiation was a raspy voice, dry mouth and lost his taste, he went thru it with flying colors, and so will you. Your so strong.”

Rank 4

@somersetflower

1 comment

698 likes

“Darling girl... You know that we are always here for you, Amma, and Matt. Give yourself grace and only post if you can. You need your strength. Lean into your loved ones and know that we are always here. Blessings and love. Janice xxx”

Rank 5

@sharonopperman6290

1 comment

679 likes

“Through thick n thin we are here for you❤❤”

Rank 6

@tondah

1 comment

655 likes

“I hate you had to hear that by yourself 💙💙💙💙💙💙🙏🙏🙏🙏”

Rank 7

@CynCynE

1 comment

645 likes

“Wow look at all that hair, you look adorable in a pixie ❤”

Rank 8

@emmah9364

1 comment

618 likes

“You’ve been through so much, Tiffany. Don’t ever feel guilty for putting you or your family first and don’t ever give up. 💖”

Rank 9

@BabyDee72

1 comment

578 likes

“Honey its ok to cry. Its been years going thru this, its ok for you to feel everything your feeling right now. Your grief is natural. We love you🥰”

Rank 10

@jeancash8977

1 comment

560 likes

“Radiation therapy helped me out a lot last summer. I was diagnosed with a baseball size tumour of Basil Cell Carcinoma. I went through 25 rounds of laser radiation. We didn't have to do any surgery to get rid of it. God was with me the whole time. Lean on God, babygirl. He will bring you through this. I'm still in remission.”

Rank 11

@Sami-Thessaloniki

1 comment

430 likes

“I am sure you will win this, but it broke my heart to see your mom. You could see all the turmoil she is going through just by looking at her face. Stay strong and you will come out on top.”

Rank 12

@Caroline-b3j3v

1 comment

421 likes

“So sorry tiff the title made my heart drop ❤❤❤”

Rank 13

@carmenrojas2288

1 comment

396 likes

“MY SWEET TIFFANY YOU HONESTLY DONT NEED THE BAND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 🙏🩷”

Rank 14

@JLH1959

1 comment

395 likes

“Your Amma’s worried face breaks my heart. You are doing great Tiffany. You are so loved.”

Rank 15

@Nobodysince1970

1 comment

393 likes

“Praying for you Tiffany. Your mother is wearing your pain. My heart is broken ❤”

Rank 16

@Adelines-g2k

1 comment

379 likes

“Healthy people want everything, sick people only want one thing. I read that when I was at the doctor. So true😊”

Rank 17

@kvlogsyoutube

1 comment

378 likes

“it's okay to cry ❤ God bless u”

Rank 18

@carhiewyatt5972

1 comment

371 likes

“Oh Tiffany it is so so good to see you .. was really worried about you. By the way your voice sounds normal to me”

Rank 19

@paula_peach

1 comment

358 likes

“I think you’re sick of feeling sick. Stay strong ❤”

Rank 20

@moe9265

1 comment

351 likes

“Your mom looked so sad in the car. Glad you’re getting a treatment plan.”

Rank 21

@RF1972.

1 comment

349 likes

“I LOVE the hair, it's so cute, Truly!!! Keep head band off let fresh air get to your head, ❤❤❤”

Rank 22

@Lilybet1316

1 comment

337 likes

“I’m on a maintenance plan for my stage 4 cancer too. It’s not operable, there is no cure but we are just trying to go as long as possible. But no one seems to talk about how hard it is to be in this limbo space, because it does make any change seem like a possible problem. Praying for you Tiffany and your whole family. 🙏🏻💙”

Rank 23

@roxpar1816

1 comment

323 likes

“Your hair has grown so much!! You're so beautiful!”

Rank 24

@Georgialoumcc93

1 comment

294 likes

“Amma just radiates grace and kindness! Such a beautiful family”

Rank 25

@juliehayden9648

1 comment

285 likes

“Hope you can all feel our arms around you ❤❤”