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@rodf20231.5Klikes2 commentsPlease be nice to this girl. She's been through so much. Remember that life can change in a second for anyone. God bless you, Tiffany!
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“There is something deeply unsettling about the way some people are responding right now. We are talking about a human being who has been very open about fighting stage four cancer; who has shown us, in real time, what strength and vulnerability look like. And somehow, the conversation has shifted into demands. Expectations. Questions about where she is, why she is not posting, what her “motives” might be. She has not posted in over two weeks. She has told some, in response to their concern, she is not doing well. She has said she tried to make a video and simply could not. That should be the end of the discussion. Instead, there are posts circulating that are rude, speculative, and frankly disturbing; taking advantage of her silence as if it is something to interrogate rather than something to respect. Let’s be very clear about something: sharing your life online does not sign you up to perform through suffering. It does not obligate you to meet anyone’s schedule. It does not mean you owe strangers updates while you are struggling to stay alive. Yes, she has chosen to share her journey. Yes, this is also a source of income for her. That does not erase her humanity. It does not make her pain content. It does not mean she exists to meet anyone else’s expectations of how cancer should look, how often it should be documented, or how “positively” it should be handled. Some days she may have the strength to show up. Other days she will not. That is the reality of what she is facing. The lack of empathy being shown by some people right now is staggering. If you care about her, give her space. If you support her, be patient. If you have nothing kind to say, say nothing at all. She does not owe anyone posts…even a small one to give “a quick update”. She owes herself whatever peace, rest, and moments of joy she can find. And that should be enough. And if her absence feels devastating to you, or you find yourself demanding answers from someone fighting for her life, it might be time to pause and ask why that feels so personal, because that answer has nothing to do with her.”
“My hubby just finished neck radiation, 42 treatments, the tumor is now gone and the only adverse he had from radiation was a raspy voice, dry mouth and lost his taste, he went thru it with flying colors, and so will you. Your so strong.”
“Darling girl... You know that we are always here for you, Amma, and Matt. Give yourself grace and only post if you can. You need your strength. Lean into your loved ones and know that we are always here. Blessings and love. Janice xxx”
“Through thick n thin we are here for you❤❤”
“I hate you had to hear that by yourself 💙💙💙💙💙💙🙏🙏🙏🙏”
“Wow look at all that hair, you look adorable in a pixie ❤”
“You’ve been through so much, Tiffany. Don’t ever feel guilty for putting you or your family first and don’t ever give up. 💖”
“Honey its ok to cry. Its been years going thru this, its ok for you to feel everything your feeling right now. Your grief is natural. We love you🥰”
“Radiation therapy helped me out a lot last summer. I was diagnosed with a baseball size tumour of Basil Cell Carcinoma. I went through 25 rounds of laser radiation. We didn't have to do any surgery to get rid of it. God was with me the whole time. Lean on God, babygirl. He will bring you through this. I'm still in remission.”
“I am sure you will win this, but it broke my heart to see your mom. You could see all the turmoil she is going through just by looking at her face. Stay strong and you will come out on top.”
“So sorry tiff the title made my heart drop ❤❤❤”
“MY SWEET TIFFANY YOU HONESTLY DONT NEED THE BAND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL 🙏🩷”
“Your Amma’s worried face breaks my heart. You are doing great Tiffany. You are so loved.”
“Praying for you Tiffany. Your mother is wearing your pain. My heart is broken ❤”
“Healthy people want everything, sick people only want one thing. I read that when I was at the doctor. So true😊”
“it's okay to cry ❤ God bless u”
“Oh Tiffany it is so so good to see you .. was really worried about you. By the way your voice sounds normal to me”
“I think you’re sick of feeling sick. Stay strong ❤”
“Your mom looked so sad in the car. Glad you’re getting a treatment plan.”
“I LOVE the hair, it's so cute, Truly!!! Keep head band off let fresh air get to your head, ❤❤❤”
“I’m on a maintenance plan for my stage 4 cancer too. It’s not operable, there is no cure but we are just trying to go as long as possible. But no one seems to talk about how hard it is to be in this limbo space, because it does make any change seem like a possible problem. Praying for you Tiffany and your whole family. 🙏🏻💙”
“Your hair has grown so much!! You're so beautiful!”
“Amma just radiates grace and kindness! Such a beautiful family”
“Hope you can all feel our arms around you ❤❤”
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Please be nice to this girl. She's been through so much. Remember that life can change in a second for anyone. God bless you, Tiffany!
There is something deeply unsettling about the way some people are responding right now. We are talking about a human being who has been very open about fighting stage four cancer; who has shown us, in real time, what strength and vulnerability look like. And somehow, the conversation has shifted into demands. Expectations. Questions about where she is, why she is not posting, what her “motives” might be. She has not posted in over two weeks. She has told some, in response to their concern, she is not doing well. She has said she tried to make a video and simply could not. That should be the end of the discussion. Instead, there are posts circulating that are rude, speculative, and frankly disturbing; taking advantage of her silence as if it is something to interrogate rather than something to respect. Let’s be very clear about something: sharing your life online does not sign you up to perform through suffering. It does not obligate you to meet anyone’s schedule. It does not mean you owe strangers updates while you are struggling to stay alive. Yes, she has chosen to share her journey. Yes, this is also a source of income for her. That does not erase her humanity. It does not make her pain content. It does not mean she exists to meet anyone else’s expectations of how cancer should look, how often it should be documented, or how “positively” it should be handled. Some days she may have the strength to show up. Other days she will not. That is the reality of what she is facing. The lack of empathy being shown by some people right now is staggering. If you care about her, give her space. If you support her, be patient. If you have nothing kind to say, say nothing at all. She does not owe anyone posts…even a small one to give “a quick update”. She owes herself whatever peace, rest, and moments of joy she can find. And that should be enough. And if her absence feels devastating to you, or you find yourself demanding answers from someone fighting for her life, it might be time to pause and ask why that feels so personal, because that answer has nothing to do with her.
My hubby just finished neck radiation, 42 treatments, the tumor is now gone and the only adverse he had from radiation was a raspy voice, dry mouth and lost his taste, he went thru it with flying colors, and so will you. Your so strong.
Darling girl... You know that we are always here for you, Amma, and Matt. Give yourself grace and only post if you can. You need your strength. Lean into your loved ones and know that we are always here. Blessings and love. Janice xxx
Through thick n thin we are here for you❤❤
I hate you had to hear that by yourself 💙💙💙💙💙💙🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wow look at all that hair, you look adorable in a pixie ❤
You’ve been through so much, Tiffany. Don’t ever feel guilty for putting you or your family first and don’t ever give up. 💖
Honey its ok to cry. Its been years going thru this, its ok for you to feel everything your feeling right now. Your grief is natural. We love you🥰
Radiation therapy helped me out a lot last summer. I was diagnosed with a baseball size tumour of Basil Cell Carcinoma. I went through 25 rounds of laser radiation. We didn't have to do any surgery to get rid of it. God was with me the whole time. Lean on God, babygirl. He will bring you through this. I'm still in remission.
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